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For Parents of Premature Infants

Clinical Knowledge. Family Focus. For the Neonatal Community.

The birth of a child is a wondrous, life-changing experience. It is a time of great joy and emotion, but it may also be a time of worries and questions. For the parents of premature babies, these worries and questions are amplified—from the moment of birth to the moment your child gets to come home. While at times you may feel overwhelmed, it may help to know that you are not alone.

For parents of neonates, knowledge is a key to helping with their children’s progress and growth. The more you know and understand about their needs, the more you can support them and the staff who help to care for them.

The good news is, we are here to help. We have a wealth of information, support, and resources to help you understand the process of caring for your newborn baby. You’ll find articles on everything from processes and systems in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) to caring for your baby after you bring him or her home.

Learn more about prematurity, the NICU, your role and much more from clinicians and fellow parents.

As a New Parent of a Premature Infant…

As with full-term births, one thing is certain—you can expect anything. This is a new experience, one that all the reading and research in the world cannot fully prepare you for.

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As the parents of a premature baby, you will be faced with greater potential for complications than if your baby had been born full-term. Your baby will reside in the Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) if the doctor deems it necessary to monitor the health of your child. You might spend a lot of time with your baby in the NICU. The journey will be long and hard, but it will give your baby the best chances for clinical care and professional support by specialists. In some cases, your baby may be sick and require around-the-clock care, and may possibly experience one or more of the following complications:

  • Breathing problems such as apnea, which is a temporary cessation of breathing
  • Infection problems of the lungs such as pneumonia
  • Physiological defects such as heart valve abnormalities

However, you can also expect that in the NICU, everything is being done to ensure your baby's growth.

Explaining the NICU

In the NICU, you’ll have the aid and care of a dedicated, highly trained staff, as well as the most technologically advanced equipment. Learn more about the special care environment to make yourself more comfortable in your baby's NICU space:

What Is the NICU?

The Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) is where your newborn will stay for days, weeks, or possibly longer, depending on the baby’s degree of prematurity. This department or area in the hospital is where hospital staff care for newborns who have medical complications, or babies who have been born prematurely.
Here, your baby will be provided with the optimal environment for growth. And you can be right there the whole time. Though the environment in the NICU can be intimidating, health care professionals will familiarize you with it so you can participate in the care process.

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This is how a modern NICU can look like: a single-family room in the NICU gives families a private, physical space to encourage parent presence and their involvement in care, and exposes babys to less noise and light.

Your Role in the NICU

As parents, you are the guardian of your baby’s health. While it might feel overwhelming to learn this new language and figure out what is happening to your tiny baby, you will become an advocate and voice for your child, while in the NICU and as they grow up.

Moms and dads have unique roles in their tiny baby’s lives, and each of you may take on different roles. Talk to other parents about how they do it as a team. If you are a single parent, you may need to access others to help you to work through those roles.

How To Get Involved?

While the work in each NICU is different, you are part of the “team” as your baby’s voice. How will you do that? The following tips will help you think about taking on this role.

The following tips from a NICU nurse have been collected and written by Lori Ives-Baine, RN, MN, Toronto, Canada.

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Parents Are Key in Helping in the NICU

As I stared at my daughter in her incubator, frozen in place by fear and worry and huge doubt about my place as a mother, I figured the medical team surrounding her knew her better than I did and knew better how to take care of her. Other than providing breastmilk, I was basically providing my child with the minimum of care. Heck, what did I know? Apparently I knew more than I realized. My fears were well-founded but my brain knew way more as it turned out. My daughter and I were strongly connected from conception and her frustrated cries sent me into action without realizing it.

What To Expect After the NICU Stay?

After you leave the NICU, your challenges in caring for your baby may be big or small—depending on how premature your baby was at the time of birth. You may find it hard to adjust to going from the 24-hour guidance and care provided by the NICU to the 24-hour guidance and care required at home. It can be overwhelming, so do not feel ashamed if you find that you need extra help, whether from family, friends, or your baby's health care providers.

Bringing Your Baby Home – Tips To Consider

When your baby was admitted to the NICU, you could barely imagine the day when you would take your baby home. This day may have come before your baby’s due date or may have been weeks or months after complex medical care. Going home after learning all that your baby needs can feel very overwhelming.

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What Preemie Parents Need To Know About the Pediatrician

Some tips on working with your child’s pediatrician to create the most useful partnership:

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Preemie health during cold, flu and RSV season

This can be an especially dangerous time for premature babies whose immune systems are still catching up. This guide shares practical, real-world strategies - from handwashing rules to managing well-meaning visitors - that help keep preemies safe. Open the document for tips you can put into action today.

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It’s a Fact, Preemies Get Re-Hospitalized

Reality is, hospitalization happens in this community, period. So prepare for it rather than have it come at you full blast and be completely unready. Some tips:

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Life After the NICU – Talk With Deb & Jen

Deb Discenza, founder of PreemieWorld, and Jennifer Degl, author of From Hope to Joy, talk about the emotions involved with leaving the NICU and going home.

What is Neonatal Jaundice?

Neonatal jaundice is one of the most common conditions in neonates, with 60% of term, and 80% of pre-term babies showing signs of jaundice1.  But what is neonatal jaundice, and how can you perceive it? It is typically characterised by a yellowing of the skin and eyes. This discolouration is caused by an elevated level of bilirubin in the blood, a byproduct of red blood cell breakdown. In most cases, newborn jaundice is harmless and resolves on its own within one to two weeks. However, high bilirubin levels may require therapy to prevent complications. Thus, it’s important to know when and how to screen for it and to use effective treatment when needed.

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Information at a glance

Find out more about neonatal jaundice and its impact on your baby in our infographic, and learn about key facts, as well as standard screening and treatment measures!

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Handout: help to understand neonatal jaundice

Jaundice is extremely common in newborns. However, it can be a cause of anxiety for you as parents. This booklet explains jaundice in a simple way.  Download the booklet to get informed, which might help you worry less.

Glossary of NICU Terms

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